The Modern Relationship Science Conclusions

  1. Natural differences are most likely to yield uneasy personal relationships.

  2. Natural similarities are most likely to yield smooth and easy personal relationships.

Relationship Example: Madonna
Preference: "I don't want easy."

In her words: "I got married for all the wrong reasons...My husband did not turn out to be everything I had imagined him to be. I just wanted to end everything...there's no such thing as the perfect soulmate...Your soul-mate is the person that pushes all your buttons-p****s you off on a regular basis....It's not easy having a good marriage but I don't want easy. I thank God every day that I married a man (Guy Ritchie) who made me think. That's my definition of true love."
 
Madonna's Compatikey result with Guy On line 3 below represents natural differences in the five 5 most significant of the 6 categories.
  • Madonna's preference was "I don't want easy".
  • The best natural choice for getting that is a relationship with lots of natural differences.
  • Madonna got what she wanted through trial and error.
  • She could have found it faster with Compatikey.